Making new friends can be all sorts of awkward or all-round awesome. If you’re looking to expand your crew, but you’re not a super-confident person, there are steps you can take to make it happen. Brush up on your social skills so that you can get down to the business of finding your new BFF.
This can help if:
- you want to meet new people and make new friends
- you’re naturally shy and reserved
- you want to improve your social skills.
Get in the friend-zone
Just because you find it hard to make friends, it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. But there are a few things you can do to come across as a great potential friend and improve your chances of finding some new mates:
- Work on your self-awareness. When you’re looking to start a friendship with another person, it’s important to be aware of who you are, your values and beliefs.
- Be patient, instead of pushy. Don’t be too disappointed if you don’t make heaps of friends straight away. Creating a network of good friends can be a slow process, but if you’re patient, you’ll end up with a whole crew of people who are lucky to know you.
- Try not to bitch. Whether you’re a guy or a girl, try to resist building friendships based on a shared dislike of someone else. Be aware that gossiping can make you seem like an untrustworthy friend, so it can backfire if you’re not careful.
- Don’t forget who you are. Sometimes the urge to make friends can make us try to change who we are, but you shouldn’t feel that you have to give up a part of yourself to make friends with others. Not only will this mean that your friendships aren’t genuine, but you’ll be missing out on meeting people who think the real you is awesome.